I love Kelis and I love her new song Bossy.
I recently decided that I am gonna get a tattoo. I have no clue what it will be, but i think i want it to be a mixture of text and drawing. I mentioned Kelis because I was watching her video today "Bossy" and this girl has the "baddest" tattoo, I love it.
I don't think my tat will be as long as hers....nah. "but it sweet". Anyhow I am trying to figure out what to get so anyone who reads this can leave me ideas.
[Adrian, since I know that you are the only person who reads my lame ass blog and is nice enough to leave comments (thanks)please don't suggest that I get a tattoo of your name across my boobs, think about summin good].
Wednesday, July 26, 2006
Tuesday, July 25, 2006
Friday, July 21, 2006
Bullshit Movies
Romance is a very weird thing. I have this theory, that even though guys and girls are different as it relates to relationships, if they are both inlove they are the same. Let me explain. Women are very affectionate, typically moreso than men. We like the grand guestures, we like the surprises(good ones), we like the mushy stuff: kisses on the forehead, flowers, love letters(yes you heard correct), the nice dinner all that. But men most times are not like that at all, they dont like to talk to us on the phone for long and dont understand why we like it. They dont really like the mushy stuff and are not as emotional as we are.
However, when he falls in love with you, he changes somewhat. He cares about what you think and tries his best to make you happy. When you are sad it pains him, because he wants you to be happy. He makes sure that you are constantly reminded that he cares about you. He reminds you not to make sure you are not miserable and emotional, but because he wants to, he does it without thinking. He makes grand guestures and constantly surprises you and most of all he always want to hear your voice and be with you, because those moments make him just as happy as it makes his girlfriend. He is willing to make sacrifices for you because of the love you share, small sacrifices and big ones. He will not watch the game tonight because he hasnt seen you in a while and needs to spend time with you. He will stay up late and make sure you get home safely, he will even go to a party with you even though he is a little tired. He hears what you have to say and really listens. So he knows when you disappointed, when you sad, when you happy.
If he doesnot really care about you then he cares not about how you feel, and when you are unhappy he doesnot really know that you are. Thats because he doesnt care about you and therefore cannot detect your unhappiness or sadness and doesnt care to. He is detached, individualistic and self absorbed. He makes no sacrifices however little they are. If he is just passing time with you, he sweats the small stuff, there is an argument about the silliest thing.
It is pretty obvious when a guy doesnot care about you, at least to me it is. Because of what he does and how he does it, in short: his actions. My friends and I were discussing this recently. Even if he is a good liar, he cant fool you about love, he just cant. So if you with a guy and he shows these tendencies then move on.
On the cynical side: I was watching a movie the other day about a couple inlove and i thought to myself that alot of times people mistake, what they see in the movies as what really happens in real life, and therefore very disappointed when it doesnt happen. Not many guys are willing to go the extra mile for a girl, not many actually care further than the fact that they wanna have sex with that person.
Have I ever been inlove, yeah i think so.
However, when he falls in love with you, he changes somewhat. He cares about what you think and tries his best to make you happy. When you are sad it pains him, because he wants you to be happy. He makes sure that you are constantly reminded that he cares about you. He reminds you not to make sure you are not miserable and emotional, but because he wants to, he does it without thinking. He makes grand guestures and constantly surprises you and most of all he always want to hear your voice and be with you, because those moments make him just as happy as it makes his girlfriend. He is willing to make sacrifices for you because of the love you share, small sacrifices and big ones. He will not watch the game tonight because he hasnt seen you in a while and needs to spend time with you. He will stay up late and make sure you get home safely, he will even go to a party with you even though he is a little tired. He hears what you have to say and really listens. So he knows when you disappointed, when you sad, when you happy.
If he doesnot really care about you then he cares not about how you feel, and when you are unhappy he doesnot really know that you are. Thats because he doesnt care about you and therefore cannot detect your unhappiness or sadness and doesnt care to. He is detached, individualistic and self absorbed. He makes no sacrifices however little they are. If he is just passing time with you, he sweats the small stuff, there is an argument about the silliest thing.
It is pretty obvious when a guy doesnot care about you, at least to me it is. Because of what he does and how he does it, in short: his actions. My friends and I were discussing this recently. Even if he is a good liar, he cant fool you about love, he just cant. So if you with a guy and he shows these tendencies then move on.
On the cynical side: I was watching a movie the other day about a couple inlove and i thought to myself that alot of times people mistake, what they see in the movies as what really happens in real life, and therefore very disappointed when it doesnt happen. Not many guys are willing to go the extra mile for a girl, not many actually care further than the fact that they wanna have sex with that person.
Have I ever been inlove, yeah i think so.
Whatdafxsup
Today I was almost brought to tears, while I was watching C-Span, when the Israeli Ambassador to the United Nations was taking to the Unites States Security Council.
I was almost brought to tears because of what this gentleman was saying and how in humane the whole Lebanese crisis/atrocity is. He spoke of the situation as just an issue, he didnt make reference to the fate of civilians, at most he reiterated that the situation in Lebanon will not cease unless they destroy the terrorist within the country.
But guess what smarts: Hezbollah is not Lebanon! Hezbollah is a small fraction of the population. So is it that civilians must die so that Israel can get rid of Hezbollah?
Is it that no country has the cojones to say that this is an outrage. I think that Israel is on this war path because they are not capable of finding the individuals they are looking for, they are bullies who are not smart enough to find what they are looking for, so they take the easy way out, which is the most disgusting part of this whole scenario- killing children and their parents. In short innocents.
If this were the opposite and Iran bombed Israel, everyone as we all know would come to the fore and call it an outrage of massive proportions. This is definitely what would happen as dictated by historical experiences : Major case in point being the Palestinian "situtaion".
Ironically enough the US who is always poking its nose in other people's affair is mum about the whole situation as is expected as they always back Israel no matter what.
Is Lebanon being punished to make an example of? Is Bush not making any statements because the Lebanese situation is taking some attention away from the Iraqi situation?
When will all the killings end and who will have the balls to say somthings? When will this country get a break? When will other countries stop using this country as their battle ground to fight their wars that has nothing to do with Lebanond itself.
What the fuck is going on? Has Bush set a trend for invading sovereing nations. Does this mean that North Korea, if they feel like it, can bomb any country, even America?
Where is the love for people. Why the fuck does one country feels that it has the right to destroy another. Why the fuck does one man feel he has the right to kill another man. Israel is taking this collateral damage thing too far.
Lets address fairness. Lets look at an eye for an eye. If Hezbollah killed 5 Israeli should Israel have the right to kill thousands of innocents? So if Syria design to attack Israel in defence of Lebanon (fat chance), but hypothetically speaking, if Syria attacks Israel in defence of Lebanon calling it a terrorist act, should anyone step in?
I was almost brought to tears because of what this gentleman was saying and how in humane the whole Lebanese crisis/atrocity is. He spoke of the situation as just an issue, he didnt make reference to the fate of civilians, at most he reiterated that the situation in Lebanon will not cease unless they destroy the terrorist within the country.
But guess what smarts: Hezbollah is not Lebanon! Hezbollah is a small fraction of the population. So is it that civilians must die so that Israel can get rid of Hezbollah?
Is it that no country has the cojones to say that this is an outrage. I think that Israel is on this war path because they are not capable of finding the individuals they are looking for, they are bullies who are not smart enough to find what they are looking for, so they take the easy way out, which is the most disgusting part of this whole scenario- killing children and their parents. In short innocents.
If this were the opposite and Iran bombed Israel, everyone as we all know would come to the fore and call it an outrage of massive proportions. This is definitely what would happen as dictated by historical experiences : Major case in point being the Palestinian "situtaion".
Ironically enough the US who is always poking its nose in other people's affair is mum about the whole situation as is expected as they always back Israel no matter what.
Is Lebanon being punished to make an example of? Is Bush not making any statements because the Lebanese situation is taking some attention away from the Iraqi situation?
When will all the killings end and who will have the balls to say somthings? When will this country get a break? When will other countries stop using this country as their battle ground to fight their wars that has nothing to do with Lebanond itself.
What the fuck is going on? Has Bush set a trend for invading sovereing nations. Does this mean that North Korea, if they feel like it, can bomb any country, even America?
Where is the love for people. Why the fuck does one country feels that it has the right to destroy another. Why the fuck does one man feel he has the right to kill another man. Israel is taking this collateral damage thing too far.
Lets address fairness. Lets look at an eye for an eye. If Hezbollah killed 5 Israeli should Israel have the right to kill thousands of innocents? So if Syria design to attack Israel in defence of Lebanon (fat chance), but hypothetically speaking, if Syria attacks Israel in defence of Lebanon calling it a terrorist act, should anyone step in?
Wednesday, July 19, 2006
TIME
Time waits for no man.
Carpe Diem Bitches. Sieze the day or live in perpetual regret.
Opportunties sometimes seem few, but make every attempt to get the most of them when they come along.
Work hard at what you want...sounds cliche, well it actually is cliche but apparently very truthful. When will you get what you want or how long it takes is another issue. And at least if you know you worked hard, there will be little room for regret.
Carpe Diem Bitches. Sieze the day or live in perpetual regret.
Opportunties sometimes seem few, but make every attempt to get the most of them when they come along.
Work hard at what you want...sounds cliche, well it actually is cliche but apparently very truthful. When will you get what you want or how long it takes is another issue. And at least if you know you worked hard, there will be little room for regret.
Sunday, July 16, 2006
Guten Tag
Things are changing, new thing are on the Horizon, lets see how I'll handle it: Success or not, friendship or not, short-term or long-term, time will tell.
Wednesday, July 12, 2006
Aufwiedersehen
Girls love romance. We like the grand guestures. We like when guys make us feel really special, not that we dont know we are, but just so we are reminded that you think so. We like the fairy tale ending, even if it is just once. A memory that we will have for the rest of our lives.
We are not that difficult to figure out. We like when thought is put into something. So if you give us a dozen roses or one it really doesnt matter, what we love is the thought and care that went into it. The thing that makes giving a single rose great/romantic and all those synonyms is that there was thought put into to it, it wasnt random or fake.
Guys, saying that you care about someone is one thing, but showing that you care about someone is even more important. Saying "i like you" or "baby i love you" dont mean a damn if you dont show it especially when it means the most.
Sometimes we meet a guy and he seems so good on paper, but when you go out with him there is no chemistry. Or you talk to someone and sometimes they can be extremely intelligent and creative and other times he is just blah.
I have been single of "recent" and I am still trying figure out whats going on. The guy "my x" is a pretty nice guy, we broke up but we stayed friends. The breakup wasnt a bad one, we had to do it because of the distance (he migrated) not because I didnt love him.
Now being single, I am now of the opinion that I wont try anymore to show a guy who I am and what I am about. My impressions of guys at this point are not favourable. So whatever guy wants to get with me and get to know me, will have to make the extra leap. I no longer accept words, I accept action.
We are not that difficult to figure out. We like when thought is put into something. So if you give us a dozen roses or one it really doesnt matter, what we love is the thought and care that went into it. The thing that makes giving a single rose great/romantic and all those synonyms is that there was thought put into to it, it wasnt random or fake.
Guys, saying that you care about someone is one thing, but showing that you care about someone is even more important. Saying "i like you" or "baby i love you" dont mean a damn if you dont show it especially when it means the most.
Sometimes we meet a guy and he seems so good on paper, but when you go out with him there is no chemistry. Or you talk to someone and sometimes they can be extremely intelligent and creative and other times he is just blah.
I have been single of "recent" and I am still trying figure out whats going on. The guy "my x" is a pretty nice guy, we broke up but we stayed friends. The breakup wasnt a bad one, we had to do it because of the distance (he migrated) not because I didnt love him.
Now being single, I am now of the opinion that I wont try anymore to show a guy who I am and what I am about. My impressions of guys at this point are not favourable. So whatever guy wants to get with me and get to know me, will have to make the extra leap. I no longer accept words, I accept action.
Tuesday, July 04, 2006
Wassup, Wassup
I have been a little delinquent and I havent been adding to my blog alot. Nothing much is new. Many of my friends are here from abroad, so I am happy about that, I hang out with them alot now, and its fun, I missed them alot. I have a handful of real friends and they cant be replicated. They are good people and they care about me alot and vice versa. These people are the friends that I will have forever.
I have also been glued to the T.V watching world cup games for the last couple of weeks. It has been fun and I am very sorry that my team, the best team in the world-yes you know who I am referring to--Argentina of course didnt make it to the finals.
And on another note, I am still in debt, and have a ton of bills in pay in the coming months. Yeah, tuition payments sucks. I wonder though, would it be so bad if I just decide not to go back. Sure it would mean I wasted a year, but I have gain some experience. I am not used to not being able to pay for what I want, i now have to rationalise and prioritise and budget. Yeah Budget-its new to me. Budgeting means I cant get a new laptop and a cant get a Palm Treo (which i desperately want). Budgeting for me in this case means that even though I am budgeting I am still motherfuckin broke. So in other words, I am budgeting money that I dont have, I am budgeting how to remain broke.
I have also been glued to the T.V watching world cup games for the last couple of weeks. It has been fun and I am very sorry that my team, the best team in the world-yes you know who I am referring to--Argentina of course didnt make it to the finals.
And on another note, I am still in debt, and have a ton of bills in pay in the coming months. Yeah, tuition payments sucks. I wonder though, would it be so bad if I just decide not to go back. Sure it would mean I wasted a year, but I have gain some experience. I am not used to not being able to pay for what I want, i now have to rationalise and prioritise and budget. Yeah Budget-its new to me. Budgeting means I cant get a new laptop and a cant get a Palm Treo (which i desperately want). Budgeting for me in this case means that even though I am budgeting I am still motherfuckin broke. So in other words, I am budgeting money that I dont have, I am budgeting how to remain broke.
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