Be honest they say; be open they say. But, the more open you are the more judgemental the person you are openining up to. When you start to give them a piece of yourself, the more they judge you. Oh boy the irony of it all.
So perhaps it is best to say little and give little, maintain the mystery and keep most of your self to you.
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im inclined to agree.
Thanx for the comment
Say nothing about yourself and you're already open to the judgment of certain individuals.
Say too much and you suffer the same fate.
I think the importance of this is not whether you'll be judged; but whether YOU would be able to accept the judgment.
But don't lose track of the fact that judgment is an entity which can be used expertly. Judgment can liberate. It can cultivate positive change. And it can mobilize many people to better themselves.
Strength is finding solace in that judgment -- whether you're judging or being judged.
I'm not yet as strong as I should be.
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